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Attention Dads of All Ages & All Stages
· Are you about to become a dad?
· Are you a stay-at-home dad?
· Have you kids in the school system?
· Are your children all grown up?
· Are you a grandfather?
· Are you a man who’d like to meet up with some dads?
· Would you like to advertise your services or products to dads?
If so, you are heartily invited – with or without kids in tow - to a free & informal get-together
Where? In the Castlebellingham Service Station on the M1 (heading south towards Drogheda)
Why there?
ü Easy to find for those coming from either Dundalk or Drogheda direction
ü Lots of free parking & picnic tables (when weather better)
ü Free indoor & outdoor play areas for younger children with plenty of seating for dads
ü Large clean baby-changing area & male toilets, both beside the play area
ü Buggy & wheelchair friendly (no steps)
ü High chairs available
ü Lots of space & relatively quiet
ü Internet access, bank machine, shop selling newspapers etc
ü Variety of refreshments available (Costa, Burgerking, Apple, etc)
When? 10.20am- 12.30am every Tuesday ( for time being )
Why?
ü To allow dads to socialise in a relaxed male environment
ü To encourage dads to make new contacts
ü To help dads get information & advice from, & give information & advice to, other men
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Separating parents forced to attend custody classes so they realise damage to children
(Daily Mirror Report; Sat 25th Sept 2010)
Divorcing parents are being forced to go to custody classes so that they realise the damage their separation inflicts on their children, it was revealed today.
Couples in Surrey, where the scheme is being piloted, have to go to two free evening sessions in the hope they will reconsider their behaviour.
Surrey has become the test county for the programme after district judge Alison Raeside championed it and made it compulsory, according to The Times.
The sessions are not forced on couples where either side could be in any danger and are funded by Cafcass, the children's courts service.
Classes: Parents in Surrey are having custody coaching so that they realise the effect of their separation on their children
Partners will not be sent to the same class and are placed with up to 10 others.
The current family law review could see the Separation Parent Information Programme rolled out across England and Wales.
Early results apparently indicate more than half of parents' change their behaviour because of the classes.
Details of the scheme emerged days after a senior judge warned middle-class parents can damage their children permanently by using them as ammunition in the divorce courts.
Broadside: Sir Nicholas Wall said that in family break-ups parents rarely behave reasonably and intelligent parents are often the worst
Lord Justice Wall, the country's leading family judge, told warring husbands and wives: 'There is nothing worse for most children than for their parents to denigrate each other.'
He said that in family break-ups parents rarely behave reasonably and intelligent parents are often the worst.
'Often the parties are fighting over again the battles of the relationship, and the children are both the battlefield and the ammunition,' he said.
His broadside came in a speech on reforms to the family justice system in which he said it was vital to reduce the adversarial nature of the divorce courts.
He also attacked his fellow judges for allowing some cases to go before as many as ten different judges.
Having one judge sit in all the hearings involving a family is essential to provide consistency, Lord Justice Wall said.
In his speech to the pressure group Families Need Fathers, he said: 'Separating parents who are unable to resolve issues between themselves rarely act reasonably.
'People think that post-separation parenting is easy. In fact, it is exceedingly difficult, and as a rule of thumb my experience is that the more intelligent the parent, the more intractable the dispute.
'Parents often find it difficult to understand that children both love and have a loyalty to both parents. There is nothing worse, for most children, than for their parents to denigrate each other.
'To use the trite phrase, each parent represents 50 per cent of the child's gene pool. If a child's mother makes it clear to the child that his or her father is worthless - and vice versa - the child's sense of self-worth can be irredeemably damaged.
'Parents simply do not realise the damage they do to their children by the battles they wage over them. A child is not a piece of property which can be parcelled up and moved around at will.'
Mr Justice Wall said that it was legitimate to criticise the family courts over the number of judges who become involved in a case.
He said that, while working as an Appeal Court judge, he found 'cases in which as many as nine or ten judges had all dealt with the same case.
'Each had had to read the papers: each had had to make a decision and, inevitably, the decisions are sometimes inconsistent,' he said. 'In short, there is a total lack of judicial continuity.
'For a number of judges all to have to read the same bundle of papers is not only a waste of valuable judicial time: it is inefficient and leads to inconsistency.'
Lord Justice Wall made his speech in the midst of a review into the family courts, which handle parental separation, child custody, fostering, adoption and also 'public' cases concerning children removed from dangerous homes by social workers.
Around 20,000 family break-ups come before the courts every year, and fathers' pressure groups have been increasingly vocal about alleged bias in favour of mothers.
There have been a number of demonstrations against the failure of the courts to act against mothers who shut fathers out of their children's lives.
The Labour government considered tagging mothers to punish those who fail to abide by court orders but the idea was dropped
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1315115/Separating-parents-forced-attend-custody-classes-realise-damage-children.html#ixzz10ZytSQks
Grandparents."It's so nice to see these valuable family members acknowledged for what they do."
http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/ireland/2010/0913/1224278756767.htmlThe Irish Times - Monday, September 13, 2010
Thousands flock to annual grandparents' pilgrimage
People converged on Knock Shrine from all over Ireland for what was billed as the largest grandparents’ pilgrimage in the world.
As the basilica became filled to the doors long before the 3pm ceremonies, one onlooker, Breda Mullen from Cong, Co Mayo, declared: “It’s a sign that the faith is really strong in Ireland contrary to what the media is saying.”
Inside the thronged building where even standing was not an option due to the overflow congregation, Knock parish priest, Msgr Joseph Quinn echoed Ms Mullen’s sentiments in his opening remarks.
Looking around him at the massed ranks of worshippers, Msgr Quinn said: “I only wish that people who write the obituary of the Catholic Church were here today or here during the national novena.”
Keynote speaker was Breda O’Brien, a teacher and Irish Times columnist, who stressed that grandparents have a crucial role in an era when, “massive changes have occurred in family form and family breakdown.”
Quoting 2009 research by the School of Social Work and Social Policy, Trinity College, Ms O’Brien said the total number of people who have experienced marriage breakdown increased from 40,000 to just under 200,000 in the two decades between 1986 and 2006. She continued: “Grandparents are the ones who keep the wheels on the wagon, who provide an anchor for bruised and hurting adult children and grandchildren, and provide a source of support and stability to people whose world has fallen apart.”
Chief celebrant for the Mass which was the centrepoint of the fourth annual National Grandparents’ Pilgrimage was Bishop John McAreavey, Bishop of Dromore.
Among those who performed at the Mass was the former Eurovision winner, Dana; 13-year-old Ireland’s Got Talent winner Chloe Coyle and singer Michael English.
There was a special round of applause from the congregation for the founder of the Catholic Grandparents’ Association, Catherine Wiley who was described by Msgr Quinn as “an apostle for our time.”
Kathleen Madden from Ballyhaunis, Co Mayo, who attended with Katelyn Concannon, one of her 18 grandchildren, said: “I have so much more time for my grandchildren than I had for my own children. It’s lovely, almost like getting a second chance at parenthood”.
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